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The Remission Dance

It’s amazing how certain people affect you and just give you a happy feeling.  Like coffee in the morning. Lighting candles just because.  Trying on a bathing suit that actually fits.  (I could go on and on…)  I just said today that I get so attached to each and every one of my clients for one reason or another.  I always find something I love.


I met Alyson when she first called to schedule a holiday portrait session last November.  Same month, I see an article and a photo of Alyson wearing an apron in the local paper asking for cookie donations to hand out to all the walkers at the Breast Cancer Walk in San Diego.  I’m like “hey, that’s you in the paper!”.  Cameron and I joyously delivered more cookies than I’ve ever baked to a busy home filled with more cookies than I’ve ever seen.  And to one happy, giving, selfless family.  A month later I get an email from the same person.  Only this time she is a mother going through the worst possible thing any mother would ever dream of.  Her child has cancer.  Her only child.  

Jared went straight into aggressive treatments and after 6 1/2 months of chemo, radiation and all the hell that goes along with it, he heard the word he’s been longing for:  REMISSION!

Those that have followed along on his Caring Bridge site have known that they have promised to dance (illegally) in the “Spirit of Life” fountain in the front of City of Hope to celebrate this day.  Just a little something to look forward to.  Almost as if they knew the outcome.  They believed in positive thinking and his “warrior” spirit prevailed!

I was lucky and honored and so stinking happy to get the call (from Jared himself no less)…”Hi Shannon, can you come to City of Hope right now?”.  I knew what that meant…

See for yourself.  Picture all the feelings of the worst day of your life and the best day of your life, and all the crap in between, crammed into 6 months.  Picture the weight lifted off your shoulders.  As a teenager.  As a Mom.  As a Dad.  Picture the sun shining.  Think of Jared’s new life the next time the sun shines down.

Or, if you’re the picture kind of person, here are a few of my favorites…

Getting in was a little cold.


But we are oh so happy to be cancer-free.


There was some tough security on hand.  ”Congratulations, but get out” were his words.


Alan should get in one more time since time was limited now that they were caught.

Final shot of the day.  Smiles, smiles, and more smiles.

July 12, 2008 - 12:42 pm david & kimi baxter - oh how fun are the fountain pics!!!! sending lots of prayers for jared and his family.

July 12, 2008 - 2:07 pm Dean Ray - hey girl:) WOW!!!!! i think i have problems. these kind of stories really make me stop and think how blested i am! i will be praying for jared and his family that his wellness continues:) my hat is off to u for being so blessed to be blessed by a family like this:) how mush jail time did jared get for playing in the fountain:) (laugh)"A MOMENT IN TIME"

July 12, 2008 - 5:28 pm Anonymous - That looks like one happy family!!!
We love you Shannon.

A, A and Jared

July 13, 2008 - 7:54 pm patrice - first off congrats to Jared. I know first hand how it feels to hear those words and I believe that a big celebration was in order. So what - security didn't understand, a new chance at life is the best gift ever. I just love the fountain shoot.
I have got to do that for my five year anniversary.

July 14, 2008 - 12:14 am Adri - Wow Shannon I know what the word remission can mean to a family my mom just got over breast cancer and those words meant so much to my family and I.It was a huge weight lifted off my shoulders I wish I would of had my camera handy to capture those moments.You captured that happiness and it shows in each picture :)

July 14, 2008 - 2:13 pm Anonymous - Wow, so awesome! Way to go Jared! Shannon your pictures are amazing!

July 14, 2008 - 6:13 pm Hanssie - Shannon, you brat. How come I always find myself crying after your posts? The photos are beautiful, but even more so with such a wonderful story behind them.

July 15, 2008 - 1:44 am Shannon Lott - Ha! I don't want everyone crying every time they read my blog...but emotions are good. It's amazing how people relate to each other.

Thanks for the comments everyone!

July 15, 2008 - 11:18 am Christopher - This is one post that I have thought for a while on. When I first saw it, I didn't know what to say. Not because I was at a loss for words, but because I had so many of them.

I know all too well the joy that they must have felt. What a relief, a joy and pure happiness. I also love the guards comments. They could not have been more perfect.

My little sister died a number of years ago of cancer and I know the havoc it reeks on a family. The world has changed since she was sick, and I am happy for it. More kids are making it and less have to deal with tragedy.

I normally don't self-promote, but tomorrow would have been her birthday. And I found a very old photo that was shot some 25 years ago that I scanned in and made as my post for her birthday. Not the best quality, but a shout out to her. I am going to try and get a lot of hits, just for her.

There is a GREAT childrens oncology camp in So. Cal. named Camp Ronald McDonald for Good Times. http://www.campronaldmcdonald.org/ They serve more kids than any other camp in the United States. If you are interested, you should check them out.

What a great post Shannon. It was a lot of fun to look through.

July 16, 2008 - 12:44 am alyson - Hi Christopher,

Thanks for your thoughtful post. Jared is leaving for Camp Ronald Mcdonald in a couple of weeks and I just know he will have a great time!!

Much love to all!!

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